Category: Life
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I Finally See How Little He Cares About Me
The mixed signals threw me off for a while. I was convinced he cared about me because he placed at least a little bit of effort into our interactions. I thought that meant something. He could have easily ignored me. He could have erased my texts before answering. He could have deleted me from social media. He […]
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When You Commit To Someone, You Cannot Invest Halfway
Commitments are supposed to mean something. Promises are supposed to mean something. Even if you have only been in a relationship with someone for a week or a month, you should not treat them as a backup plan. You should not be dedicated to them during weekdays but act single on weekends. Committing to someone […]
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You Should Heal Your Own Heart
When you lose someone or something important to you, it may take some time for you to be at peace with the fact that things have changed. You may see it as a negative experience in your life and question the reason such a ‘terrible’ thing has happened to you. But at the end of […]
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There Is Always A Breakdown Before The Breakthrough
I’ve had this topic on the tip of my tongue all day today because I have been fighting battles that I believe are setting me up for greatness. Obstacles that are molding me, teaching me and perfecting me for the job God has in store for me. To all my twenty-something warriors, I know you […]
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Remember To Support Your Friends Who Are Struggling
When you have a cold, you usually recover. Your stuffy nose goes away. Your fever decreases. Your headache stops, and the pain in your throat ceases. But when you’re struggling with mental health, recovery doesn’t happen so easily (or quickly). Mental health is long term. If you have a friend struggling with anxiety, depression, bipolar, […]
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The Art Of Actually Healing
Time heals all wounds. It’s true. But how long does time take? I used to think that I would heal after a certain amount of time. That’s just not the case in life. Healing doesn’t have a timeline. I believe healing happens in ways we don’t understand. Some days could feel like you’re on top […]
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25 Things To Remember After You Fall For The Wrong Person
1. Between you and the right person stands a line of wrong people. 2. People will always leave you but darling, it doesn’t mean it is your fault. 3. Some things will never work on our favor, no matter how much effort we put in. 4. Love is not the only thing we need but […]
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Remember To Wait, Because God Has Perfect Timing
To you who feels like giving up on that one dream: don’t. You have to hold on a little bit more. Give yourself and your dream more time to materialize. You have to live to that day when you will be able to say to yourself, “I made it.” You have to believe that this long […]
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When You Love Someone, You’ll Fight For Them
You don’t give up on the one you love. When you love someone, truly love them; you don’t look for excuses to leave. You don’t see every obstacle as a reason for incomparability. You don’t mention about breakup easily as though it meant nothing to you. When you love someone, leaving isn’t an option. It’s […]
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I’m Slowly Learning Not To Chase After Love
I’m slowly learning not to chase after anyone and instead focus on myself. It’s scary how much I change the minute someone shows interest in me. I become someone that I am not. I lost myself in trying to obtain someone’s approval. I settled for less than I deserve. My world quickly revolves around wanting […]