Category: Life
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You’re Single Because You’re Awesome, Bottom Line
All too often, I hear friends wondering why they can’t seem to find love. They wonder if something’s wrong with them, if maybe they’re not successful, funny, or attractive enough. The answer for them and for you is simple: you’re single because you’re so awesome. 1. YOU’RE BUSY CREATING AN AMAZING LIFE. You’re working on building your career, earning […]
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I Told You What I’ve Been Through, Then You Put Me Through The Same Crap
When I told you that my past relationships were hard on me, I really trusted you wouldn’t do the same. I confided in you; I believed you were someone who would at least show me the decency of avoiding those same hurtful behaviors. I was honest and upfront about what terrified me and what I wanted to […]
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Be The Girl Who Walks Away
Be the girl who has courage; Be the girl who walks away. Be the girl who is able to muster up the strength to leave a toxic relationship. Be the girl who walks away from the man in her life that makes her feel bad about herself every time he is around. Be the girl […]
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How To Rebuild Your Life When It Completely Falls Apart
Every one of us at some point or another will face a season in life where things we planned on or counted on will fall apart. The impact of that instance will vary in the level of intensity for each person but no matter what your personal experience, taking these steps will help you begin […]
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The Magic Of Not Being Chosen
When my best friend broke my heart at 15 by ditching me for a cooler group of girls, I still remember what my dad told me. “You have to lower your expectations of people.” I’m still trying to figure out if this is possible. Most of the hurt in my life — and most people’s […]
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Fight For Him — But Don’t Compete For Him
Fight for your relationship. Put effort into him. Set aside time in your schedule to hang out with him. Plan dates you believe will bring that cute dimpled smile to his face. Send texts to remind him how much you care. When there is a small bump along the road, do not run. Stay for […]
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When A Crush Isn’t A Crush Anymore
I used to think I was better than this, but I’ll admit that it’s so easy for me to have crushes on other people. Then again, it’s easy for anyone to have a crush on someone. Crushes are usually fleeting and superficial; I have crushes on dudes at the airport who are in a completely […]
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I Choose To Carry Gratefulness In My Heart
I’m very grateful for the people around me who continue to inspire me to become a better version of myself. It’s amazing that they inspire not just through words of advice or inspirational quotes but through how they actually live their lives. I am truly moved by their stories which inspire me to make something […]
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To The Man Who Made It Easy For Me To Open My Heart Again
Thank you. I don’t think you have any idea how lovely you are. Part of your beauty lies in the fact that you’re simply ignorant of how remarkable it is that you exist in the world. I thought you were a dream, a figment of my imagination, someone I could only feebly hope to someday […]
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15 Signs He’s Only With You Because You’re Convenient (Sorry!)
Convenience does not equal love, sweetie. From what I’ve seen in my dating life, guys will stick around with a girl they don’t want to commit to if they’re convenient. It’s sad, it’s horrible, but it’s true. And, if you think about it, it’s hard to blame them. There probably have been guys out there you’ve dated just because […]