Stay single until you find someone who chases you.
Stay single until the person you find, you didn’t go out looking for because the best love in your life is the love that you stumble across. It’s not the love you searched for. No, the love that will change your life is the love you never, ever saw coming.
Stay single until you find someone worth holding onto.
Don’t just hold on for the sake of it. Hold on because never in a million years could you imagine letting go. Hold on because the pain that comes with struggling through life together far outweighs the pain of going through it alone.
Stay single until the one you find teaches you what love really means.
You don’t love him because of how much he loves you. You love him because of how much he makes you love yourself. So, stay single until the person you find teaches you what love is really about because it’s not just about the love he gives you. It’s so much more than that.
Stay single until the man you find is enough on your hardest days.
Stay single until you don’t need anyone else but him; until he’s the only one you go to on your worst days. He should be the one you rely on mostly because he’s been through it all by your side.
Stay single until you find the love you crave.
Stay single until the love you find patches the hole in your heart. Stay single until you’re no longer searching for what you feel you’re missing, but instead, celebrating what you have. Stay single until the love you’ve waited for all those years finally finds you, and you know it.
Stay single until you find the love you deserve.
After all those years of searching, of fighting, of wishing for better–wait for the love you finally deserve. You are worthy of the love that keeps you alive. You are worthy of the love that makes you feel like the most important person in the world.
Stay single until you’re no longer waiting.
Stay single until you find the love that makes your world stop because when you find it, you’ll know this is, this right here, is what you’ve been waiting for. Wait. Wait for the love that stops time.
So, stay single until you find someone who chases you because I promise, that’s the love that will change everything. You won’t need anything else. You won’t wish for anything else. You will finally feel whole again.
Wait for that love.
By Hannah Irelan for thoughtcatalog