She won’t be able to get enough!
When you and your lover dissolve into one being — lips locked, tongues entwined, bodies wrapped in rapture …
And the more you kiss, the more turned on you BOTH get …
This is some mighty fine kissing!
Are you having hot, passionate make-out sessions with your woman?
Is she melting in your arms?
Is the way you kiss her turning her on to the point where she wants you with a hunger and an urgency that makes your lovemaking even more sublime?
According to Dr. Helen Fisher, a leading authority on love and attraction:
“Kissing is a mechanism for mate choice and mate assessment … There’s evidence that saliva has testosterone in it, and there’s also evidence that men like sloppier kisses with more open mouth … That suggests to me that they are unconsciously trying to transfer testosterone to trigger the sex drive in women.”
Psychologist Gordon Gallup elaborates further, pointing out that women and men kiss for different reasons.
“Males tend to kiss as a means of gaining sexual favors, or as a means of affecting reconciliation,” says Gallup. “Females kiss more as a mate-assessment device.”
Basically, she kisses you to collect information about who you are and whether or not you are suitable for her as a match. He kisses you to get you excited and woo you into bed.
In addition, both men and women kiss in order to become emotionally closer to their partner.
If you aren’t currently having the erotically charged kissing sessions of your dreams, here are 22 tips for turning the passion up:
1. Brush your teeth. (If it’s been longer than 6 months, schedule your dental hygienist appointment today.)
2. Limit eating onions and garlic.
3. Shave your face very close and smooth. (Change your blade!)
4. Rub organic olive oil onto your face after shaving to soften your skin and stubble. Then wipe it off with a dry towel.
5. Approach her slowly for a kiss. Hold her in your arms first and let your heartbeats synchronize.
6. Find a comfortable spot to make out. Check the temperature, lighting and music.
7. Start on the outside periphery of her body instead of zeroing in on her mouth first.
8. Kiss her forehead, eyelids, neck, cheeks and cleavage before kissing her lips.
9. When you kiss her lips, start with a sweet series of brief kisses. Make her want more before you give her more.
10. Move from her lips back to her neck, cheeks and forehead — then back to her lips.
11. Take it slowly and softly. Make your lips soft, full and lush so they feel sensual. Slide your lips across hers.
12. Do not hurry. Be in the moment and feel every sensation.
13. Take breaks. Breathe each other in deeply. Look into her eyes and connect with her.
14. Tell her how sexy and beautiful she is. Let her talk. Let her get anything she needs to say out first so that she can surrender to the hot make-out session with you.
15. Be very expansive and joyful. Don’t have any agenda for getting more than kisses. Don’t kiss her to get sex. Kiss her for the sheer joy of all that sensation on your lips, tongue, mouth, face, hands, body …
16. Warm her up slowly and luxuriously. If you need to set a timer if you have a hard stop, set it and forget it. Go under into unbounded pleasure until the dinger dings.
17. Show her your desire for her. Growl. Go, “Mmmmmmm …” Make sounds that show her how much you are enjoying being with her.
18. Reward her efforts with verbal appreciation. Women need to HEAR your approval. This will allow her to relax and get even more turned on.
19. Lay her down with your body above her. Hold her down lightly as you kiss. Hold her chin in your hands. Hold her hands against the mattress. Give her the feeling that you are dominating her while making it implicit that she is always in control and you will never hurt her.
(Notice how the man in this picture above is holding her very securely? Women LIKE to feel secure while being kissed.)
20. Move her body for her. Take control of everything and reward her for letting go into rapture.
21. Use a wide variety of kisses. Take time exploring, enjoying and delighting her.
22. Mirror her actions and pace. Notice how she kisses you and kiss her back in the same ways to see how she responds.