Whether you’re trying to shake a guy off or not, here’s how your sign will, inevitably, push your current love interest away. Of course, if you see these flaws ahead of time, you can definitely do things to fix the impending doom of your relationship due to the least attractive traits your sign holds, but if you like watching a slow fire burn until there’s nothing left, then sit back and let your zodiac sign do all of the work!
In all seriousness, there’s great and not-so-great traits to every zodiac sign, and some of them will easily lose a guy for you in ten days or less. Unfortunately, not all of us can end up with a guy like Matthew McConaughey. But, it doesn’t hurt to give them a little push and test them, right? If he can deal with all of your sign’s eccentricities then you know you have yourself a keeper. Or, if you want to let a guy down nicely then really put fuel into your sign’s disastrous relationship traits. It’s a way of breaking up with him in just a short amount of days without actually breaking up with him. Note: If you seriously like your new love interest, check yourself in these areas so you don’t lose him in ten days (or less).
Confident and charming Aries can also be arrogant and selfish. But you, probably, already know this if you’re an Aries or you’re close to one. Because of your ability to come on strong to guys, yet still manage to get them to fall for you, you also come on strong in the area of self-love and self-care to the point where even though you may be in a relationship with another person, it’s still ALWAYS about you. When your love interest is upset about something, you will always focus on how it will affect you and you won’t be afraid to ask or voice this to them. Unlike Cancer who takes things too personal, you take every situation that’s about someone else (good or bad) and find a way to make the situation all. about. you.
14. Taurus: Your Clingy Tendencies Will Have Him Running For The Hills
Though you’re one of the most sensual signs of the zodiac making you hard to resist to the object of your affection, you can also come off as clingy in new relationships. Because of your stubborn nature but nurturing qualities, you’ll have your new love interest immediately hooked, possibly attached early on, and then when they realize you’re more marriage material than casual dating material, they’ll freak and may run for the hills–unless they’re ready to settle down, as well. It’s not your fault you have all of the qualities of the ideal wife and woman, Taurus. Some guys get these qualities confused with clingyness, but that’s just an easy way to vet out the guys who don’t deserve your time, interest or loyalty.
13. Gemini: Your Gift Of Constant Gab Will Make His Ears Bleed
We know you’re excited about your new crush, Gemini, but give the guy a chance to converse with you. As a Gemini, you’re natural gift is the gift of chatter. And we’re not talking about small talk. You love getting into deep conversations on an intellectual level that will leave you gabbing into the wee hours of the morning, but sometimes only you. Your love interest will soon figure out that they can’t seem to get a word in when they’re around you or they’ll notice you interrupt them every chance you get, and they’ll get tired of it and peace out. So, take a breather. Make sure your conversations are more equally balanced out. Unless you have a crush who loves to hear you talk and doesn’t mind inserting a few words here and there, then you’ve found a perfect match. Definitely don’t lose that one in ten days.
12. Cancer: Your Moodiness Will Confuse Him Until He Can’t Take Anymore
Oh, Cancer. You feel so much, but communicate it so little until your emotions can’t contain themselves and…boom! While you’re very intuitive to others feelings, you tend to try and swallow your own but in a very non-discreet way. You can come off as very moody causing your love interest to take flight on a roller coaster of emotions with you. Some guys are patient enough to handle this, depending on how much they like you, and some will witness one, mere mood swing and turn the other direction. So, if you’re trying to lose your latest admirer in ten days then take him on the craziest roller coaster ride of emotions you can muster. If you’re not, then keep your moodiness in check and focus on calmly assessing your feelings and expressing them in a healthy way.
11. Leo: Your Need For Constant Attention and Drama Will Drain Him
You do things big, Leo. You love big, you fight big, and you live big. Everything is exaggerated when it comes to you so whoever you start dating will find that out sooner than later. If you’re dating someone who isn’t big on giving you attention or likes keeping the details of their life hush-hush, you’ll have a hard time finding happiness with this type of person. Leos thrive on attention and affection from their partners (in private and in public), and when they don’t get it, they’ll create drama to bring attention to themselves. It’s a way of lashing out in order to create an air of importance around them. Right, Leo? If he doesn’t have the stamina to keep up with your necessary theatrics, then boy bye.
10. Virgo: Your Judgy Side Will Have Him Walking On Eggshells
As righteous Virgo and the sign of service, you tend to do yourself a disservice in new relationships by being too brutally honest early on. Not just about yourself, but about others. When you show this side to your newest love interest, it can be intimidating and make him wonder exactly what you think about him. Is his job not good enough? Is his physique enough for you? If you’re making comments to him about your flaky and slutty friend, he’s wondering what else you’ll be saying about him–not just about him, but to his face, as well. As a Virgo, you don’t hold your words back, especially your opinions. You are, typically, always right and tend to voice this or have a righteous air about you. Before you tell him how 2004 his lace-up Vans are, lessen the blow a little with some different, and less scathing, adjectives. Or use it to your advantage if you’re trying to get him packing!
9. Libra: Your Indecisiveness Will Help Him Decide To Leave
While it’s true that as a Libra you’re always, pretty much, fair and balanced, especially in your relationships. But it can also be said that you have quite an indecisive streak, as well. If your newest dating partner asks you where you want to go on a date, it’s safe to say you’ll be deciding on that answer far past the deadline of your date. One of the best things about dating a Libra is that the other person will always have a choice in the matter due to the less and almost non-existent stubborn nature of a Libra. This won’t work out well, though, if the person you’re dating is just as indecisive as you are. You’ll both end up getting annoyed with one another when BOTH of you can’t make a decision. So whether you want him stay or not, it’s safe to say that if you can’t make firm decisions every now and then, he’ll end up making one of the hardest ones for you with a grand exit out of the relationship.
8. Scorpio: Your Mystery and Sensual Appetite Will Be Too Much For Him
At first, you’ll captivate your newest love interest with minimal effort. As a Scorpio, you have the ability to easily and effortlessly draw the interest of those who you want attracted to you. Your coy mystique is enough to attract any partner. Not to mention your insatiable appetite for showing your affection to your partner will have him coming back for more and more. That is, until he can’t break the shell of mystery you tend to always keep around yourself or until he realizes he can’t keep up with you physically. Either way, don’t be afraid to let your guard down if you really are interested in your newest crush. But, if you’re not or unsure, keep doing what you’re doing because either way he’ll peace out meaning that he, probably, wasn’t in it for the right reasons anyway, or he’ll stick around and keep trying to learn about the real you.
7. Sagittarius: Your Need For Adventure And Freedom Will Intimidate Him
While you’re busy running free and indulging in your wanderlust, your newest dating partner will be wondering where he fits in. You’re a fire sign who thrives on autonomy, so if you’re dating someone who thrives on togetherness and codependency then you’re going to have a tough time keeping your relationship harmonious. You’re looking for someone who can jump in an automobile, train or plane at a moments notice. You want adventure and the unexpected. This will scare some away, especially those who thrive on a routine or who love predictability. So, if you’re looking to play for keeps with the new apple of your eye, you’ll want to make sure they’re game for an adventurous life with you.
6. Capricorn: Your Intimidating Ball Busting Attitude Scares Him
You, Capricorn, are one of the most disciplined signs of the zodiac. You love order and you’re not afraid to enforce it. You also strive to maintain your organized life (and personality). And if anything (or anyone) threatens that, you’re not afraid to speak your mind. In fact, you will speak your mind regardless so whoever your latest love interest is should get ready for some critical feedback. You can’t help it that you have an opinion and feel it’s important to share it with those you feel can benefit from it. Although, too much criticism or harsh opinions will scare your dude away. Unless that’s your grand plan. But if it’s not then think before you speak so you’re not coming off as a complete ball buster in your relationship.
5. Aquarius: Your Aloof Demeanor Will Push Him Away
You’re naturally autonomous and oh-so aloof, Aquarius. Whether you know this or not, it’s just how you come off. There are certain partners who will understand this and not take it personally, but there are others who will. You’re not big on sharing feelings or showing your emotions, so it’s hard for someone to be sure if you really like them or not. What’s even more confusing is that the more you like someone, the farther you tend to push them away. This eventually stops when you are ready to face your feelings and let them in. But that in between time may push your newest love interest away for good so just be prepared, if that’s the case. Or you could always try to get more in touch with your feelings and not be afraid to share them so much, but that may be asking too much.
4. Pisces: He’ll See Through Your Manipulation Tactics (Eventually)
Pisces, you’re so dreamy, romantic and…manipulative. Yep, I said it. You may come off as the first two, but you always have something hidden behind the rose-colored glasses everyone sees you through. While you tend to have a boyfriend, someone you’re dating, a casual hook up, or someone on the sidelines at all times, you tend to have many at once, as well. Eventually, one of your romantic interests will start to get suspicious of your whereabouts and catch on that they’re not the only special person in your life. When this happens, they’ll either turn a blind eye or peace out. And that’s not the only manipulation tactics you’ve got going on. You’re much smarter than you let on, Pisces. Scheming isn’t something foreign to you. In fact, it’s, basically, second nature. You scheme and thrive on the drama of others when you’re trying to escape you’re own problems. But rest assured that when you’re not being manipulating, you are completely capable of having and maintaining a healthy relationship. Don’t be afraid to focus on yourself, Pisces.
3. Taurus: You’re The Ideal Mate
Taurus you’ve got it all: brains, beauty, sense of humor, nurturing instincts, stability and loyalty. What more could any mate ask for? Chances are you’ve already showed him what it’s like to be in the best relationship of his life, so, you’ll have the hardest time shaking off a guy you’re not interest in–but you probably already know this. If you find yourself feeling guilty for leading on what seemed like the ideal partner for you, don’t be afraid to be honest about your feelings and tell them you’re just not interested. Due to your stubborn nature, you won’t lead them on anymore once you’ve realized you’re not into them. The issue just may be shaking them off without hurting their egos or feelings. Instead of ghosting or fading them out, just be honest and share your feelings.
2. Leo: You’re A Hot Item Everyone Wants A Piece Of
Yes, queen. We know you’ve had your share of stalkers or share of those you’ve had to friendzone before they even realized what was happening to them. You’re fun, playful, carefree but also have a dominant side that reels in lots of admirers. You take charge when necessary, but you know how to just chill and curl up with your S.O. like the cuddly cat you are. Because of your ideal balance of vibrant aura and calming energy, you can bring an air of unpredictability from those who are attracted to that. Some of your love interests will be into it and some won’t know what to do with it. Either way, they aren’t going to let go of you as easily as they were drawn to you so just have your boundaries clear and your breakup spiel ready.
1. Scorpio: You’re Hard To Resist, Even When You Try To Repel
Intensity is one of your best defining qualities, Scorpio. While you always keep an air of mystery surrounding you, you do it with such intensity that your new admirers don’t even notice. Because of your seductive glances and intense gaze, you have no trouble attracting those you want, especially those you don’t want. Because you don’t take relationships lightly and are, likely, looking for a serious relationships–even if you don’t know it–you won’t keep someone around if you see them as just that; casual. And though you may see them as that, it doesn’t mean that they see you as so. Chances are your newest fling is looking at you through rose-colored glasses and is probably more into your relationship than you. Making the lines of communication clear is important as you don’t want to lead anyone on too far.