Pursuing a woman is an art of its own. Pursuing is underrated and easy to dismiss. Humans get into routines, we like what’s comfortable. Once you’ve been with the same person for a certain period of time everything becomes habitual. Every. Last. Thing.
We don’t talk about the importance of being perused enough. We all have our own needs and desires that are unique to ourselves, but we all deserve to be pursued.
Date someone who actually pursues you, who gets excited by the thought of you.
Date someone who spends an extra thought on the details of your date nights. Date someone who actually plans date nights.
Be with someone who is certain of you, who knows they want you despite whatever is going on their personal life.
Date someone who doesn’t stop chasing you, someone who dares to outdo themselves. Date someone who remembers the little things you say, only to bring it up at the most perfect times.
Date someone who knows the value of solitude but still knows how to make you always feel chosen.
Date someone who makes their love for you known, someone who writes home about you and someone who compliments you in front of their friends.
Date someone who wants to love you how you need to be loved. Date someone who pursues you, who never gives up on that.
Date someone who knows how lucky they are to have you, who knows they need you to occupy space in their life.
Date someone who is endlessly fascinated with you, who genuinely finds you interesting.
Wherever you are and whoever your “type” is, make sure you are being pursued. You deserve to be adored. You deserve to feel chosen. You deserve a love that makes you feel unconditionally adored, someone who never stops trying to love you better.
By Leena Sanders for ThoughtCatalog