Category: Sex

Grab the lube. Great anal sex is comprised of 3 important elements: The first is the right stroke from your man. The second is enough experience to make it feel great for the both of you. And the third is the right sex positions. When you combine these 3 things, then you have a recipe for […]

We’ve all been there and it’s AWFUL. Some of us really do love to give blowjobs, but we are usually aware that there are some elements of it we would rather do without. Oral sex may actually be more intimate in some ways than traditional sex because we’re getting right up in there. Our nose, face, […]

Avoid a broken heart. Back in the dog days of the late 80s, when I started “dating”, I didn’t ask many questions before jumping into bed. Granted it was another place, another time — a more innocent time — but not totally innocent; before the internet, but also after AIDS. It was the end of high school for me, and while […]

Someday you will die. But before that happens, there’s so much sex to be had. Sex: it’s what’s for dinner. It’s an important part of our lives. Without it, there would be no life. I know, I know, sh*t just got heavy, but stay with me. You don’t have to be a particularly risque person to have […]

You’re VERY welcome! *wink* When it comes to keeping your love life vibrant (whether with someone else, or solo), you can never have too much literotica. It’s sexy, seductive, enticing and just plain fun. Why does reading erotica work so well to turn you on? Because sexual arousal (especially female arousal) begins in the brain. So often, we […]

Keep these in mind, ladies. This list represents the most common complaints made and doesn’t represent every man’s experience, nor is this list the result of a sound empirical research study. The information is offered with the intent to stimulate communication between partners, not to create any shame, wrong-doing or blame. Our sexuality is complex. […]

No whips and chains … just a little light kink. Sexy bedroom “spank and tickle” play is even more fun when you’re in these kinky sex positions. 1. Up against a wall.  This one is a classic and you don’t have to do the whole hoisted-in-the-air thing to make it hot. Simply being pushed up against the wall and keeping both […]

You shouldn’t have to hold back. When I was a virgin, I have a very idyllic vision of what I thought sex was like. I pictured myself in a beautiful king-sized bed with freshly washed sheets and arms wrapped around a gorgeously built man with a face similar to that of a young Harrison Ford (though old […]

Wow! It’s the second highest heterosexual porn search term. You’ve heard the term “cuckold” and know it’s “kinky”… but what is it really? How does it work? And most importantly … is it for you? Sex counselors and sex coaches, like me, are knowledgeable about the practice to some degree. My job as a Clinical Sexologist and Intimacy […]

File this under “good problems” to have. I’m not going to toot my own horn, but if I did, picture more trombone than trumpet. It’s not everything, but let’s face it: we’re all a little concerned with penis size, even women. Don’t believe me? Raise your hand if you own a 4-inch dildo. I thought so. […]