Category: Love

  • Love Is A Choice

    Love Is A Choice

    “If he were so special, why would it feel so easy to leave this?” “Love isn’t just a feeling. It’s a choice,” my sister replied. It’s a choice. Three words that altered everything I thought I had known in a matter of seconds. From a young age, we are taught that love is the butterflies […]

  • When You’re Losing Faith In Love And Need Something To Hold Onto

    When You’re Losing Faith In Love And Need Something To Hold Onto

    I think we’ve all gotten to that point where we’re tired of a lot of relationships that lead to dead ends. The ones that are just something physical and not emotional. The ones that fade out with no explanation at all. The constant swiping and first dates and knowing that’s where it starts and ends. […]

  • This Is What Mixed Signals Actually Mean (So You Can Quit Questioning How He Feels)

    This Is What Mixed Signals Actually Mean (So You Can Quit Questioning How He Feels)

    He spends hours flirting with you — and then goes days without replying to your texts. He stares at you from across the room — and then he walks by without a glance in your direction. He makes you feel like it’s only a matter of time until he becomes your boyfriend — and then he makes you wonder […]

  • If We Decide To Try Again, Let’s Go Slow

    If We Decide To Try Again, Let’s Go Slow

    Two years ago I hastily scurried out of your life. I left you with many questions, no answers–reaffirming, at the time, my mature immaturity. Now, here you are re-entering my life the same way you arrived; bold, unfiltered, and unapologetically you. With one text you somehow manipulate time by transforming 2018 into 2016. I read the […]

  • People Who Are Meant To Be Together Always Find Their Way Back In The End

    People Who Are Meant To Be Together Always Find Their Way Back In The End

    A relationship is always going to be unpredictable to a certain degree. Sometimes, a bulk of us can end up in relationships without even really intending to. And some of us never get into relationships no matter how hard we try. You might be lucky enough to find love even when you’re not necessarily looking […]

  • Date Someone Who Never Stops Choosing You

    Date Someone Who Never Stops Choosing You

    Date someone that never stops choosing you. Date someone who never gets bored with learning the map of your body and the love language of your mind. Date someone who finds a way to make loving you look like pure bliss. Date someone who gets excited by the thought of you, someone who daydreams of […]

  • If He Wanted To Be With You, He Would Be With You

    If He Wanted To Be With You, He Would Be With You

    It’s a hard pill to swallow. But the truth is going to heal your heart a lot faster than simply letting it break over and over until you finally face what you knew all along anyway: If he wanted to be with you, he would be with you. There are a million possible scenarios here. […]

  • Stay Single Until You Meet A Forever Person That Looks Like This

    Stay Single Until You Meet A Forever Person That Looks Like This

    Stay single until you find someone who makes an effort. The effort in surprises. The effort in planning dates. The effort in you. Investing time and energy into the things you care about. Forever starts with the effort and commitment someone invests in you. As you should them. Stay single until you find someone who […]

  • You’re Losing Her Without Even Realizing It

    You’re Losing Her Without Even Realizing It

    It’s the texts you answer at your convenience. It’s the snaps you look at then put down your phone. It’s every like when you’re bored because you’re wondering what she’s up to. It’s every canceled plan when something better comes along. It’s the attention you give that’s the bare minimum. But she takes it. Because […]

  • 10 Things To Tell Your Partner When Your Relationship Is Difficult

    10 Things To Tell Your Partner When Your Relationship Is Difficult

    The best kinds of couples are able to push past their troubles and find comfort in their shared love. No relationship is ever guaranteed success. Happy endings are never promised. A successful relationship requires a lot of patience, commitment, and understanding. Couples will always go through rough patches and they will always have to deal […]