Category: Life
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This Is For You On The Days When You Don’t Feel Okay
I know you don’t feel okay right now. I know your body is worn out, and your soul is tired. I know that the anxiety keeps coming back, and the sadness keeps flooding your mind. I know you aren’t okay, and I know all you want to be is okay. I can see it written all […]
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I Am Offically Retiring From ‘People Pleasing’
Everyone I talk to about ‘people pleasing’ knows this phrase all too well. It’s true, we are a society full of ‘people-pleasers’. What we wear, how we speak, what we share about our lives, absolutely every decision we make is influenced by our desire to not be judged, and also to gain acceptance by others. […]
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I’m Bad At Modern Dating Because I Don’t Like Waiting
I am impatient, which makes me horrible at playing hard to get. I cannot spend hours, let alone days, waiting to answer your text. I will answer within a span of five seconds to five minutes. I can try to hold myself back, but I won’t be able to think of anything else until I hit send. […]
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To The One God Is Saving For Me, You Are Worth The Wait
It has not been very easy waiting for you. Guarding my heart against someone who pretends to be you wasn’t an easy task. I don’t know who you are or what you look like but I’m praying for you. Getting weirdly emotional to someone I haven’t met yet is awkwardly terrible but at the same […]
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I Really Liked You (Even Though You Kept Ignoring Me)
It didn’t matter how many times you ignored my messages. I would be embarrassed about how distant you were acting at first. I would swear to never give you another chance. But when you eventually texted me again, I would forget about the promises I made to myself. I would go right back to wanting […]
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You Were Never Mine And I Was Never Yours
You were never mine and I was never yours. But you touched my hand as if asking permission for it to be held. You curled your fingers around as if never wanting to let go, as if your life depended on it, as if it was the most valuable thing in your dear world. You were […]
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I’m Slowly Learning To Say Goodbye To Everything That Is No Longer Good For Me
There should not be a lot of room in life for storage. I have too much storage in my life, but that is all about to change. I have never been good at goodbyes. Holding on is what I’m better at. But this time, I’m slowly learning to say goodbye to everything that is no […]
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Don’t Go Back To Him, You Deserve Better
Don’t go back to him because it’s the easier thing to do. It’s easier to be with him than to be single and navigate the scary world by yourself. It’s easier to let yourself believe that both of you are soulmates than to confront the hard truth that you and him have grown apart. It’s […]
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10 Little Habits That Make You Irresistibly Attractive
It goes far deeper than your looks. We don’t say this out loud, but deep down inside we all want to be attractive. No, not with a fit body or the perfect face, but having qualities that people feel magnetized to. Being the kind of person everyone wants to be with and do favors for. Unfortunately, I […]
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One Day You’ll Lose Her And Before You Know It She’ll Be Gone Forever
You’re going to lose her if you only ever really answer her text messages whenever it’s convenient for you to do so. You’re going to lose her whenever you just continue to stare at your phone even when you’re out on a date together. You’re going to lose her when you refuse to even acknowledge […]