Category: Life
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You Deserve Better Than To Be His Second Best
We as women are told that we are princesses: we only deserve to be loved by a prince. Up until recently, I didn’t realize how flawed this mentality was. So,let me just get this right: I am a princess because of a man? Sweetheart, if that is really the way you are thinking, I am stopping you in your tracks. You […]
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Date Me Or Turn Me Down (But Do Not Keep Me In The Middle)
I don’t want you to string me along for months and make me think we are going to end up in a serious relationship when you know perfectly well you aren’t looking for anything serious. I don’t want to tell my friends stories about you and mention your name to my parents and stop pursuing […]
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I’m Not Putting In The Effort Anymore
I’m not going to sit around and try to come up with conversation starters, excuses to send the first text. I’m not going to work my ass off to continue a conversation that you are letting die with your ‘k’ and ‘lol’ responses. I’m not going to force you to talk to me when you […]
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To My Future Love: Find Me When You’re Ready
I’m confident you’re out there. I really can feel it. I can’t explain the feelings but sometimes I even feel like I’m about to talk to you (in my head) or about to run into you. I quietly say, ‘I miss you,’ so many times just to let you know how I’m feeling. I know it sounds […]
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The Key To Happiness: Stop Giving A Shit
As much as we all hate to admit it, we’re people pleasers. We want people to like us. It’s a weakness that everyone has in common. We can’t help it. What happens when you allow other people’s opinions of you to dictate your opinion of yourself? What happens when you start viewing yourself through everyone […]
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It Turns Out Being Single Without Being Lonely Is Easy—Here’s How
Being single might seem like the kiss of death to someone who loves being around other people, but it can actually be far more social and fulfilling than being in a relationship could ever be. Here are few ways to avoid loneliness and appreciate single life in all its glory. 1. INVEST IN FRIENDSHIPS. Your friends are your […]
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I’m Slowly Learning How To Miss Someone Without Wanting Them Back
Being in my early 20s, a lot of things happened to me. Starting from dreaming of what it’s like in the real world down to struggling with adulting. During this process; I started to gain lots of experiences, meet new people and build new relationships. But just like what they say, “When you gain some, […]
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You Never Talk To Me, But You Keep Watching My Stories
We used to talk all the time, but I barely hear from you anymore. You never reach out to me. You never ask me how I’ve been. It would feel like you’ve dropped off the face of the planet, except I can tell you’re lurking. I know you’ve been paying attention to me. I know you’ve been […]
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I’m Slowly Learning That Not Everyone Is Meant To Be In Your Life
If you know me or you’ve ever read any of my words, you know that having healthy relationships is so important to me. Spending my life engaging in intimate relationships is the most important thing, it’s my number one priority. Unfortunately, this leaves me with an empty and unsettling feeling when loss or rejection occurs. […]
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In My Story, I Choose Myself
In this story, we are barefoot and dancing, cloaked in love and a sun-kissed glow, sleep still in our eyes. We sway back and forth in the middle of our kitchen, the sound of our own hearts beating drowning out the buzz of the Keurig. In this story, you never take your eyes off me. You never […]