Category: Life
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I Don’t Need A Man To Solve Problems; I Need A Man Who Won’t Become A Problem
There’s this common misconception that women are always going to need men in their lives if they want to survive in this world. And I think that that’s a load of bull crap. People especially women have just got to stop buying into that mindset. It’s not true. Men need to stop thinking that the […]
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An Open Letter To The Man I Couldn’t Wait For Any Longer
I’m done waiting for you to give me an answer: I can’t allow you to be uncertain about loving me any longer. I’m done with waiting on you for your final answer, I’m done with you always trying to evade me when I ask you if you really want me, if you really want this. […]
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10 Ways Women Act When They Don’t Love You Anymore
“She doesn’t seem like she cares anymore.” The sad truth about relationships is that they are rarely ever perfect. A lot of relationships won’t ever have the privilege of seeing itself go all the way because human beings are inherently imperfect, and their imperfections play into the dynamics of the relationship as a whole. There […]
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Dating Me Isn’t That Hard — Just Don’t Be A Loser
Being a strong woman who doesn’t hesitate to call guys out for their BS behavior comes with its fair share of challenges, particularly when it comes to dating. I get that I can initially come off as a little intimidating, but it really shouldn’t be that way. I’m not unapproachable or unreasonable and dating me really […]
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The Pain in Being Loved When You Hate Yourself
I’ve read so many articles, books, blogs, and journals on how to love someone with depression. I’ve talked to people who love people with depression and listened to how they know it in no way defines their love for that human. I’ve watched family members and friends go through phases of depression, be loved through it all, […]
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What You Don’t Realize About My Habit of Oversleeping
On any given day when my family and friends try to get ahold of me, they often are not concerned with the fact that I don’t answer the phone after three or four calls. They don’t wonder where I am at 6 p.m. when I should be at dinner, and they certainly don’t question my whereabouts […]
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I Was Emotionally Available Until I Dated Way Too Many Guys Who Weren’t
When I first started dating, I was pretty much an open book. I found it easy to be vulnerable and to let a guy get close to me in dating because I was hopeful it would lead to love. Of course, it didn’t take long for relationships and heartbreak to ruin all that. It doesn’t […]
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I Won’t Give A Guy My Full Attention Until He’s Proven Himself In These 9 Ways
I was a one guy kind of girl until recently when I started what I call “double dating,” or going out with two guys in one night. These days, I can’t guarantee I’m not calling it an early night because I need to drive across town to have a drink with someone else. If a guy wants […]
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I’m Not Choosing The Wrong Guys — I’m Dating In The Wrong Era
I get really tired of people telling me that my bad luck in dating is because I’m choosing the wrong guys. My selection process isn’t the problem — I date all kinds of different guys. I don’t have a type; I look for a genuine connection. The only problem that exists in my dating life […]
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Couples Who Drink Together Are Happier Together, Science Says
Who doesn’t like to kick back with a beer or a glass of wine at the end of a long, stressful week at work? Maybe you order a pizza, put on your ratty sweatpants, and curl up with your partner on the couch to pig out, get a little buzzed, and generally chillax. If this sounds like […]