Category: Life

  • I Thought I Was Cool & Low-Maintenance But I Actually Just Didn’t Value Myself

    I Thought I Was Cool & Low-Maintenance But I Actually Just Didn’t Value Myself

    I’ve always prided myself on being low-maintenance, but it wasn’t until I stopped to actually evaluate my life that I realized I just didn’t love myself enough to believe that I deserved more or to demand it from the people I dated. 1. I FELT GUILTY ASKING FOR MORE THAN I WAS OFFERED.  Whenever I tried to ask for […]

  • Don’t Get Rid Of Your Belly—Guys Like A Little Jiggle

    Don’t Get Rid Of Your Belly—Guys Like A Little Jiggle

    Do you have a perfectly flat stomach? It doesn’t really matter—especially not to guys. If you stress that dudes won’t be into you unless you’re rail thin, stop. Turns out, most men actually prefer women who have a little bit of a belly. 1. MOST WOMEN HAVE BELLIES, SO LET’S JUST BE REAL ABOUT IT. While you […]

  • This Is Me Finally Committing To Myself

    This Is Me Finally Committing To Myself

    I realized that I got my shot last night. No brandy would ever make me feel so good after you left. I have gotten so much of the heartache and I guess every little thing that I did is not that enough for you to stay. I may be so tipsy and dizzy but I […]

  • To The Girl I Was Six Months Ago

    To The Girl I Was Six Months Ago

    I know that months ago, you never thought that you’ll be totally okay. You never thought that the pain will go away. You never thought that darkness won’t be at your side anymore. The past six months were tough but you knew that you are tougher. For that, I am proud of you. Always. Last […]

  • Don’t Run Back To Your Ex Because You Can’t Find Anyone Better

    Don’t Run Back To Your Ex Because You Can’t Find Anyone Better

    Don’t run back to your ex because you have been single for longer than you are comfortable with and miss the days when you had someone to call yours, even if they weren’t exactly perfect for you. Don’t run back to your ex because you have been feeling lonely and their name is the only […]

  • The Moment You Realize That God Is Not Done Teaching You Important Lessons

    The Moment You Realize That God Is Not Done Teaching You Important Lessons

    As an adult, you think when you reach a certain age that you already know too much. You’ve gone through enough experiences in life that taught you so much about love, heartbreak, wisdom, pain, healing and starting over. You’ve met enough people who taught you how to determine who’s right or wrong, who’s honest and […]

  • 33 Simple Ways To Fall Back In Love With Your Life

    33 Simple Ways To Fall Back In Love With Your Life

    It happens to the best of us – life starts to stagnate and drag. When our day-to-day routine starts feeling more like a never-ending chore, it can be all too easy to forget that our lives require our active participation in order to stay fresh and exciting. So for the times when you’re feeling disenamored […]

  • To The Girl Who Overthinks

    To The Girl Who Overthinks

    “But I don’t want to go among mad people,” Alice remarked. “Oh, you can’t help that,” said the Cat: “we’re all mad here. I’m mad. You’re mad.” “How do you know I’m mad?” said Alice. “You must be,” said the Cat, “or you wouldn’t have come here.”  Welcome to the club.  A club created and […]

  • To My Best Friend—Thank You For Always Being There To Catch Me

    To My Best Friend—Thank You For Always Being There To Catch Me

    We all have that one person that we can bear our soul to. Who’s there without question every single time. When shit hits the fan, they stand there with open arms waiting for you to run into them. They never let you down and they never could. They know you to your inner core and […]

  • Be With The Girl Who Does Whatever The Hell She Wants

    Be With The Girl Who Does Whatever The Hell She Wants

    Be With the Girl Who Does Whatever the Hell She Wants, and Here’s Why: When we are born, certain decisions are already made for us based on our gender. Because I was born a female, certain things were expected of me growing up and still are. For instance, as females, we’re expected to have particular […]