Category: Life
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This Year Taught Me The Art Of Surviving On My Own
This year was hard in so many ways but it also could have been worse so I can’t say it was a ‘bad’ year but it definitely had more downs than ups. It had more heart breaks that I expected. It wasn’t the year I hoped for. I actually fell short this year. I didn’t check off […]
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Being Friends With Benefits Broke My Heart
Being friends with benefits broke my heart. It’s my own fault. I had zero interest in a casual relationship but I agreed to one anyone. I agreed because my self-esteem was low. I was upset you didn’t want to date me, but I didn’t think anyone else would want to date me either, so I […]
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When You Get Ghosted, Let Them Go
The problem with getting ghosted is you can never tell whether or not you are actually getting ghosted until it’s too late. When you have a strong connection with someone, when you spend weeks texting them and they suddenly drop off the face of the planet, you assume there is a reason. You give them the benefit […]
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When You’re Losing Faith In Love And Need Something To Hold Onto
I think we’ve all gotten to that point where we’re tired of a lot of relationships that lead to dead ends. The ones that are just something physical and not emotional. The ones that fade out with no explanation at all. The constant swiping and first dates and knowing that’s where it starts and ends. […]
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Stop Messing With My Heart
Mixed signals mean you are not interested in a serious relationship with me. Mixed signals mean you like me a little bit but not enough to put your heart on the line. Mixed signals mean I should stop wasting my time on you. At least that is what I have always told myself — but your mixed […]
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The Best Revenge Is A Happy Life, And I’m Committing Myself To Mine
Starting today, my simple intention is to live in such a way that one day I will be your biggest mistake. How I choose to do that, rather than boasting or bragging, rather than ranting and tantrums, attacking and nagging the bad things that happen, is to ooze awesomeness into existence. Starting today, I’ll deliver […]
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This Is What Mixed Signals Actually Mean (So You Can Quit Questioning How He Feels)
He spends hours flirting with you — and then goes days without replying to your texts. He stares at you from across the room — and then he walks by without a glance in your direction. He makes you feel like it’s only a matter of time until he becomes your boyfriend — and then he makes you wonder […]
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I Don’t Give Up Easily. But Once You Lose Me, I’m Gone
I am the kind of person who gets attached to people way too easily and quickly. I like to think that I have a very soft heart. I like to think that I am an advocate of love; a warrior of passion. I would like to believe that I’m the kind of person who would […]
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9 Things People Don’t Realize You’re Doing Because You’re Completely Fine With Being Alone
1. Things people typically do with others, you don’t mind doing by yourself. Going to a movie alone is no big deal for you. You don’t mind being responsible for consuming a giant bag of popcorn all to yourself, or sipping a soda with only one straw. Things that people normally do with other people you have […]
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In 2019, Put Effort Into Loving Yourself
In 2019, do not allow toxic people to infiltrate your world. Do not let allow your guilt to convince you to answer texts and set plans with someone who has hurt you. You do not need their negativity and you have outgrown their immaturity. Do not fool yourself into believing you are the one in […]