Category: Heartbreak
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If Giving Your All Isn’t Enough, You’re With The WRONG Person
It’s time to stop bending over backwards. Do you jump through hoops to please your partner, but no matter how hard you try, you simply never succeed at it? You change your behavior, allowing your partner to mold you into what he or she wants, turning you upside down and inside out … it still doesn’t work. You beat yourself up, trying so hard […]
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8 Signs That ‘Nice Guy’ Is Actually A Narcissistic Assh*le
He ain’t foolin’ anyone. We’ve all encountered him: the self-proclaimed “nice” guy who suddenly reveals himself to be a needy narcissist, jealous jerk, or passive-aggressive, entitled player. Or, if you’re really unfortunate, some combination of all three. So how do you tell if the dude you just started dating is genuinely good, or just a dick? […]
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Only A Man Who Doesn’t Love Himself Mistreats A Woman Who Loves Him
Don’t take it personally. Remember back in elementary school when parents or teachers talked to us about bullies? We all got a lesson on how to handle being picked on and what not to do, but the most important thing we learned was that it wasn’t really about us at all. The bully who claims to hate you so much really don’t care about […]
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My Parents Forced Me To Stay Married To My Horribly Abusive Husband
My family knew about the abuse. They did nothing. I didn’t even want to go on the trip. There was absolutely nothing appealing to me about driving several hours with a family I didn’t like, a husband who was treating me like garbage, a cranky three-year-old daughter, and a colicky three-week-old son, just so that my […]
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I Sent My Cheating Husband An ACTUAL Pile Of Horse SHIT In The Mail
Yes, I know that puts me in the “crazy” category, but f*ck it. It was sometime just before midnight in the middle of the week, when I took to Google to see if I could send a big chunk of sh*t to my husband. My husband and I, already separated since August and living in different […]
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An Open Letter To The Man I Loved — And Let Go
You changed me. You changed everything. Dear You, It’s been months since I’ve seen you. The last time, I thought we were maybe going to be OK. We sat in my car and talked about how being apart was stupid, how we cared too much to walk away, about what had gone wrong, and we […]
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For Those Who Can’t Forget Someone Who’s Already Forgotten You
Instead of forcing yourself to forget that person, free yourself to remember them. There are two main reasons why we struggle to forget someone: 1. We truly believe they are the one for us. 2. We fear that we will not find anyone better. However, we should all remember two things: 1) If someone is the right person for us, they will come back into […]
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3 Reasons Why You Fall For Emotionally Unavailable Partners
My most common client is in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable partner. They don’t know what to do and they don’t understand why their partner treats them the way they do. Their partner says they are committed to the relationship, but their behavior tells a different story. We wonder if we are a priority […]
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How You Deal With A Broken Heart, According To Your Zodiac Sign
Find out how well (or not well) you cope with a baaaad break-up. We all experience the pain of a broken heart at some point in our lives, and we each have our own ways of dealing with it. Some stew in their feelings until they move on, while others pretend it doesn’t affect them […]
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To The Man Who Emotionally Destroyed Me: Thank You
You were the best worst thing to ever happen to me. Dear You: I want you to imagine this: a girl sitting on her bedroom floor, dry-heaving, her body convulsing with each failed attempt at silencing the sobs, banging her fists onto the ground as she tries to make sense of her broken heart. Now, […]