Category: Heartbreak

  • Your Brokenness Is Welcome Here

    Your Brokenness Is Welcome Here

    “Let’s be frank. We are straight up sinful. There is no denying it. And a lot of times we break ourselves and cause our own pain by our actions.”   We are a broken people, am I right? Each of us come from various backgrounds and upbringings that shape our character and struggles. We have been […]

  • I Know You Miss Him, But You Shouldn’t Let Him Back In Your Life

    I Know You Miss Him, But You Shouldn’t Let Him Back In Your Life

    Don’t let him back in your life, even though you keep checking his social media to see if he changed his profile picture or updated his relationship status. Don’t let him back in your life, even though you’ve been daydreaming about what would happen if you did, even though you’ve been writing out texts and […]

  • I Will Never Forget You, But I Will Let You Go

    I Will Never Forget You, But I Will Let You Go

    I will never forget you, but I will let you go. Slowly but surely, I will loosen my grip on the idea of us, of we. I will drop all the notions of a future, those shards of hope that you and I would ever become something real. I will watch those promises of a […]

  • 7 Honest Reasons Women Cheat

    7 Honest Reasons Women Cheat

    As a disclaimer, I’m just going to say that I am not writing from experience, but writing from the sidelines. Writing from the heart. As someone who has watched many relationships crumble from all sides of the fence, including mine, cheating is a hot topic and a wicked demon that hurts so many of us. […]

  • 28 Lessons I Learned While Healing From My Bad Breakup

    28 Lessons I Learned While Healing From My Bad Breakup

    1. It’s not your job to fix someone. And someone who wants to fix you, doesn’t actually love you. 2. You don’t have to be in a relationship in order to be happy. 3. You will find love again, and you are worthy of it. 4. Loving someone else really does start with learning how to love yourself first. […]

  • I Love You Enough To Let You Go

    I Love You Enough To Let You Go

    You came into my life like a breath of fresh air. Like somehow the universe knew we needed to meet. I fell in love with you faster than anyone I had ever me. To be honest, I’m fairly certain I fell in love with you the first time we kissed. You once asked me how […]

  • Every Time Someone Leaves

    Every Time Someone Leaves

    Every time someone leaves I always think I’ll handle it a little more gracefully. Like I won’t fall to my knees on the bathroom floor crying in a scream that no one actually hears because I only let myself be that vulnerable when I’m alone. Every time someone leaves I always think I’ll be okay. […]

  • When You Can’t Find The Words To Describe The Pain You Feel, Read This

    When You Can’t Find The Words To Describe The Pain You Feel, Read This

    You wake up and every single day it’s that reminder of the pain that is still present. Everyone says it’ll go away. It’ll get easier. It’ll stop hurting so much. But when you’re overcome with just this numb feeling that doesn’t subside, you just want to lay there. You don’t want to get up. You […]

  • You Were My First Choice, But You Made Me Your “Just In Case” Girl

    You Were My First Choice, But You Made Me Your “Just In Case” Girl

    I really liked you and thought you felt the same — and you did, to an extent. You were super into me… as long as it didn’t work out with your first choice. I wasn’t the girl of your dreams; I was just the girl you thought you could live with settling for. Here’s why […]

  • 13 Reasons To Be Proud Of Walking Away

    13 Reasons To Be Proud Of Walking Away

    Breaking up is hard to do, there’s no doubt about it. Whether you’re in a crappy relationship or one that doesn’t seem to have very much conflict at all, it can still hurt to make a breakup official. When you’ve spent so much of your life (or perhaps not that much time at all) with […]