Category: Heartbreak
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It’s Hard When You Miss Your Abusive Ex
Disclaimer: I am writing solely from my own experiences; when I make generalizations such as “abusive relationships are x,” “abusers do x” or “abuse victims feel x”, it is for syntactical fluidity not to assert that every person who has been in an abusive relationship feels the same way ? PART ONE: THE NEGATIVES It’s […]
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To The Man Who Wasn’t Ready
To the man who wasn’t ready, I forgive you. I forgive you for raising my hopes. I forgive you for making me intoxicated on the idea that we could have been something spectacular. I forgive you for not being ready for an extraordinary love. I feel like the luckiest girl to have been in your […]
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This Is What Happens When A Girl Gets Her Heart Broken
If you look close enough, you can tell when a girl has had her heart broken. There’s something in the way she smiles, the dull glimmer of her eyes that tells you someone or something has shattered her into a million, tiny pieces. If you look close enough, you can see she’s learning to piece […]
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5 Signs You Love Someone Who Doesn’t Deserve You
You never appreciate what you have until it is gone sometimes. Some people never appreciate you even when you are gone. They are so self-serving and self-centered that anything that isn’t of direct and immediate benefit to them does not even appear on their radar. They are so in love with themselves that there is none […]
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I Fell For You Even Though I Knew Better
I fell for you, even though deep down I knew you weren’t right. When I first met you, I knew you were going to give me trouble. Something about that cheeky smile. Something about the way you laughed and made jokes. Something about the way you looked at me. Something about the way you made […]
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You Don’t Appreciate Her Yet But You’ll Regret It When Someone Else Does
You didn’t see it but she spent a little longer getting ready that day, fixating in front of the mirror. But you didn’t even tell her she was pretty. You didn’t see it but she spent a lot of time trying to find something perfect to give you. Only you didn’t even say, ‘thank you.’ […]
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8 Physical Effects of Heartbreak
Heartbreak is so much more than sadness. It destroys you from the inside out, leaving you with an almost lifeless body. It sounds exaggerated, but only those who have experienced it can understand. In fact, it’s an understatement. Dating isn’t the same as it used to be or should be. It is much more complicated […]
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This Is How Difficult It Is To Fall Out Of Love
I stare at the screen and I see that I’ve just received a message from you and I don’t even make an effort to read it. I hear my cellphone beep as I’m lying down on my bed ready to fall asleep. I stare at the screen and I see that I’ve just received a […]
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Why You Need To Walk Away Even If It Hurts
So yes, for now, it’s okay to be heartbroken and disappointed. Some things just aren’t meant to be and you’re going to have to accept day, dear lady. He isn’t the right guy for you and that’s okay. If things were really meant to go the way that you wanted them to go, then you […]
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3 Things You Should Never Say To Your Man If You Don’t Want To Lose Him Forever
Ladies, this is for you. The male brain isn’t as complicated as you think. In fact, he’s going to be very simple-minded. He’s not going to demand a whole lot of things from you. He isn’t going to put too much meaning into things and he isn’t going to read too much into various situations. […]