Category: Buzz

She has a lot of pain inside of her. She is scarred and she is emotional. She needs to be with someone who is not intimidated by the demons that she carries within her. She is only looking to be with a person who knows to accept her in her entirety. She doesn’t want to […]

I know I’m an amazing catch and I expect the guy I date to recognize and value that from day one. I’m sorry, but I’m not going to sit around and wait for you to choose me. We either click or we don’t; you either make me a part of your life or you don’t. If not, I’m […]

I have the overwhelming feeling that today is going to be a “write-off” day. The self-loathing. The hoodie and hide under the covers type of day. Sometimes there are tears. Sometimes just the feeling in the pit of your stomach. I woke up today feeling like this. I have depression and anxietyand after a difficult night filled with […]

“Unless we learn to know ourselves, we run the danger of  harming ourselves.” Ja A. Jahannes Self-destructive behavior can be easy to fall into, and hard to climb back out of. This is especially true for those of us who may suffer from mental illness such as an anxiety or depression. Sometimes, you don’t even notice […]

Maybe they were single throughout all of high school and aren’t used to being someone’s girlfriend. Maybe they have been on a few dates since their ex left them, but nothing has ever turned serious. Maybe they decided to take a break from dating for their own good or maybe they ended up being alone despite […]

Aries (March 21st to April 19th) You never take responsibility in your own actions, no matter how big or small these mistakes are. You don’t know how to own up to your mistakes because it causes you so much angst. You need to be able to accept that you are a person, not a robot. […]

1. They spend so many years learning to fall in love with themselves, they forget that the goal is to love yourself first, not love yourself only. They spend so much time learning to happily function on their own that they forget life requires relationships. There is no way around this. You can be romantically unattached for […]

Lately I have been struggling to write/blog. I think they call it writer’s block. I find myself a bit lost in everything that has been going on in my personal life. I sometimes forget to take care of myself. I think we all do at some point. We lose ourselves, but sometimes losing ourselves can […]

Why aren’t liars and cheaters the odd ones out? Why are we surprised when we leave our things unattended and they don’t get stolen? Why don’t we believe it when somebody actually tells us the truth? Why are we so quick to assume they’re going to break our hearts? Why are we so shocked when they don’t? Why are […]

1. Forgive yourself. Forgive yourself for all that you have done wrong thus far. For the friends you left behind, for the jobs you left, for the people you mistreated, for everything that weighs you down. Forgive yourself for being human. 2. Let go of the past. Let go of the people who never believed […]