Your soulmate is still out there.
You might not believe that soulmates are a thing, but you can’t deny that there are people out there who would make an AMAZING match for every zodiac sign.
You probably have an ideal “type” that you always look for. Your dream bae might be someone who is well-educated, or a foot taller than you — or just plain ridiculously attractive. Whatever it is, a “type” always catches your eye.
But unfortunately, relationships with ideal “types” who match everything in our mental checklist for our dream partner don’t always end up as great as we imagine. (Such a bummer!)
Like, you can find an attractive, well-educated dude with a great sense of humor, but he has little in common with you or isn’t very attentive. How much time have you wasted on people who you thought were PERFECT but ended up being pretty terrible?
Sometimes, you think you want one thing, but you’re completely unaware that you actually desire something else.
That’s because when we’re dating, we look at what we WANT instead of what we NEED.
When you’re not entirely sure what you need, you might focus too much on what you want. And this leads to unsatisfying dating experiences. Instead of just going after what you want, it’s better to stay single and wait for someone who gives you what you NEED — the person whose personality meshes well with yours and who knows you to your core.
If you’re clueless about the perfect type of person worth waiting for, then one of the best places for insight is through astrology and reading your horoscope. Each zodiac sign needs different things in a relationship, so continue reading below to find out if your soulmate is still out there, waiting for you in return.
Aries (March 21 – April 19)
Aries shouldn’t waste time with people who are all talk and no actions. She needs someone who will WORK just as hard as she does.
She needs a partner who will be there for her whenever she needs and who will put in as much effort as she does.
Simply put, she needs a hard worker who reciprocates just as much effort as she puts in. She meets too many lazy people, and they simply won’t cut it for her.
Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
Taurus is hot-headed, so she needs someone who knows how to calm her down. She needs to wait for the one who knows all her different moods.
She dates many people who are completely intimidated by her and who forget that she can actually be pretty sensitive or emotional.
Taurus needs someone who knows her temperament and can handle her instead of running away. Once she finds this person, she can be SURE that she’s found her dream bae.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
Gemini needs to wait for the one who will let her be herself. A lot of her past lover try to mold her into something she is not.
Gemini loves to simply and unapologetically be her own person. She lives by her own terms. That’s why she should wait for someone who is okay with who she is and who doesn’t see her as a blank slate to color.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
Cancer always goes for the exciting badasses. She loves to have fun in different aspects of her life, and dating is no exception. She wants adventure, but what she really needs is stability.
An insecure Cancer turns CRAZY when she’s dating someone who isn’t completely upfront and serious about her. Cancer would be WAY better off avoiding the f*ckboys and going after that person who commits to her.
Leo (July 23 – Aug 22)
Leo is totally attracted to guys or gals who are just as flashy as she is. She cares a lot about appearances and status, so she wants someone to fit into her checklist and cares about these things, too.
She’s attracted to people who are…well, attractive. But the person who she should REALLY wait for is the one who encourages her to be her best.
The supportive one who believes she CAN do anything. A little inspiration can do wonders for her, and she needs a special someone who sees the absolute best in her.
Virgo (Aug 23 – Sep 22)
Virgo is way too shy to ever make the first move. Instead, she’ll hide in the sidelines. She needs a lover who will push her outside her comfort zone and encourage her to be bold and experience life.
She needs to wait for the one who shows her that being brash can be pure FUN. The person worth waiting for is the one who shows her that life’s too short to be lived as a wallflower.
Libra (Sept 23 – Oct 22)
Libra rushes into love WAY too quickly. She is impatient to get into new relationships.
Libra is the girl who goes from date to date and NEEDS to constantly be in a relationship. Totally understandable. But she’d be surprised by how much better things would turn out if she just waited for the right person.
She always dates people who are wrong for her. Instead of wasting her time on d-bags who can’t commit, she needs to wait for someone who wants ONLY her and won’t waste time giving her REAL commitment.
Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)
Scorpio needs to wait for a sensitive partner who will show her the small details of life. The perfect person worth waiting for is the one who is poetic and complex.
Scorpio always misses the small details of life, because she’s always overwhelmed, stressed, or anxious. She needs someone who reminds her to slow her roll and enjoy each moment as it comes.
Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
Sagittarius should wait for a partner who is steady and smart. She always goes for the ones who are just as crazy and carefree as she is.
She THINKS she wants to date the daredevil … the one who is unafraid to go ANYWHERE. But what she really needs is someone who is clever and open-minded but also stable and firm.
She needs someone to balance her out … someone who can be her rock.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
Capricorn should wait for a partner who is just as responsible as she is. She’s tired of wasting time on people who don’t have their lives together like she does.
She needs a partner who can keep up with her. She definitely doesn’t need to go on more dates with people who left their wallets at home or who forget to do small things like take their trash out.
Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)
Aquarius needs to wait for someone who tells amazing jokes and laughs along with her whenever something funny happens.
Aquarius has an AMAZING sense of humor. All she needs is someone to share it with.
She needs a quirky partner who will keep the laughs going. Her absolute weakness is someone who can make her clutch her stomach laughing.
Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
Pisces always plunges into relationships way too quickly without getting to know her partner first. She needs to wait for someone who will stay up late with her and have deep talks with her.
The person who knows her to her core and understands what she wants. A lover like this may seem hard to find, but Pisces shouldn’t settle for anything less.