When you are in a committed relationship, whether you’re a man or a woman. All of us make mistakes we aren’t aware of. What’s worse if we start to make it obvious and start to overreact the way we shouldn’t be doing. But today, I’m’ talking about women.. In order to make your relationship happier and healthier, women must avoid and try to control correcting these 8 huge mistakes:
1. Easily gets jealous when he looks or talks to another woman
Jealousy is healthy, but too much jealousy without reasons can destroy a relationship. As a man, it’s totally normal to admire an attractive woman but that doesn’t mean you need to be suspicious. If you started to get jealous, then it shows that you are being insecure. You will know if your man is cheating on you when he started to act strangely and will be hiding something from you. You need to believe in yourself and in your partner, relationship without trust can kill a relationship.
2. Being too clingy
No one wants to be in a relationship with a woman who is so needy and showing too much affection. Men also want space on their own, and sometimes they want privacy and space to be alone too. If you have a partner that is too clingy, you will eventually feel suffocated later on.
3. Too demanding
Sometimes being overly demanding can ruin a relationship. Having a demanding partner can be annoying because you will feel manipulated or controlled and you will be trapped along the way, which might cause you to surrender. Try to change your attitude by asking permissions instead of making demands, by that he will have enough reasons to accept or refuse a situation.
4. Lack of trust
Trust is the key to a successful relationship. When you build trust, you build love, loyalty and acceptance. Once a trust is broken, it will be really hard to be fixed again. Trust is a BIG thing in a relationship, so it is important to know your partner’s personality, getting to know him better is an important part of a relationship so that you won’t feel doubt when you both are already dating in the future.
5. Vividly recalling the past
Past is past. What’s important is today! Women tend to get emotionally affecting their partner’s past relationship and begin to compare their differences which can be very annoying. When you are in a relationship, it won’t give you an assurance that your relationship will last. Long term couples experienced difficulties in their relationships, but it’s up to both of you how far will you go through it.
6. You are trying to change him
Women love surprises! But not all men are the same. Some have their own way of showing affection for their partner which can be different expectations most women hope in the long run. Pay attention to your partner’s behavior. Every man has a different style and personality. If you notice he is a serious type of guy, don’t expect him to be overly aggressive with you. And if you notice he is too aggressive, then don’t expect he is too silent for you.
7. Keeping emotions in yourself
Denying that there is a problem in your relationship, but instead of facing it and asking yourself what needs to be done, you are keeping it yourself. Relationship problems are always there, that’s why communication is an important thing to all couples. Ignoring it will only make it worse.
8. Letting your partner solve your own problem
Everyone needs to face difficult situations in life because that’s the way of LIFE! And thinking that having a relationship or getting married is the answer, hoping your partner will solve all our problems. For example, when dealing financially, don’t let your man deal with it alone. Do not be too contented that your man has a good way of living and you don’t need to have one. It’s just too wrong!
By LaneLamani