Do these three things BEFORE you break out the handcuffs …
Different people normally have different sexual needs and fantasies, where something that you may find normal/exciting may be frowned upon by others.
There are some people who would like to know the process of getting involved in bondage and below are a few guidelines on how to go about it.
1. Know what it actually is.
Before you get involved in this sexual practice, it is important to know exactly what it is all about to know whether it is for you or not.
Formally, in regards to sexual gratification, bondage can be described asthe use of restraints as well as the restriction of movement to enhance sexual pleasure of the partners involved. It can be something simple as using a pair of fuzzy handcuffs or as complex as sensory deprivation or full mummification. It can be an activity that individuals take part in just for the fun of it, or it can be the tool that is used to improve a larger and more complex relationship.
Like very many sexual concepts out there, it is easy to recognize, but it can be challenging to define. This is because it takes up many forms some that are less obvious than the others.
2. Find someone who’s interested.
An unwritten rule when you want to get involved in bondage is to make sure that you find a partner who’s also interested or willing to try it out. (If he or she isn’t, you just won’t have much fun.)
Pressuring someone to do something that they don’t know or are not interested in can be, at a minimum, awkward, and more importantly, it could damage your relationship. It’s best to talk to the person before you get them involved in the process to be on the safe side.
3. Get the right gear.
For bondage to work out well, there are a couple of equipment items you need to have to fulfill the whole purpose.
In some cases, especially if you are just starting out, you may not need a closet that is full of elaborate gear. A couple of ties, bungee cords and scarves can work out well. However, there are some people who might not do well with things such as fetish clothing, tools that are used for restrictions and many more to make certain they enjoy the entire process in the proper way.
People want to get involved in bondage for various reasons.
There are some people who find it a great way to spice up a rather bland sex life. There are some people who consider it a very important thing that should be included in their sexual practices. For other people, they like the visual impact that it brings about thanks to the tools, clothing and equipment.
By Mike Hatcher orginal post on YourTango