#1: He will find any excuse to talk to you.
A lot of guys aren’t always going to be very upfront about their feelings. They will be very hesitant about expressing themselves when it comes to their romantic emotions. They see expressions of emotions as signs of vulnerability and weakness. They would never want to deliberately place themselves in positions of vulnerability. A lot of men will still subscribe to the kind of thinking that they need to espouse strength, confidence, and indifference especially when dealing with the matters of the heart. And because of this, a lot of girls will get frustrated when they’re trying to figure out whether a guy is interested in them or not.
Of course, girls aren’t going to want to risk opening themselves up to guys who are extremely distant and closed off. And so what happens is a lot of potential romantic opportunities get missed out on because of guys’ hesitations to be forward about their feelings and their emotions. It’s an awful waste whenever a love affair fails to come to fruition just because feelings end up being left unsaid. Fortunately, people have learned how to read between the lines. They now don’t necessarily have to rely on words to know if a person is romantically interested in them or not and that’s always a good thing.
But if you happen to be one of those people who don’t know how to read other people, then this is your lucky day. This article would be perfect for you. You no longer have to stay in the dark when it comes to trying to figure out if a guy likes you or not. There are some clear-cut signs that you can keep an eye out on to know if a guy is really interested in you or not. Here are a few low key signs that a guy is really into you.
1. He will find any excuse to talk to you.
He loves conversing with you and so even when it’s out of his way, he’s still going to find a way to talk to you. He will try to force himself into situations wherein the both of you are going to converse with one another.
2. He devotes a lot of time to you.
Remember that time is valuable and people don’t necessarily give it to other people unless they are important. So if you find that he is allocating a lot of time in his schedule just to hang out with you, then you can bet that you are important to him.
3. He talks about his future plans and dreams with you.
Future pans, goals, and dreams are always intimate details about a person’s life. If he wants to open himself up to you by talking about his biggest goals, then he is essentially giving you a peek into his personality.
4. He talks about you to his best friends.
You mean so much to him and so he’s going to need an outlet for his emotions. He isn’t going to want to reveal his feelings to you, but he’s going to want to open up to his friends about you.
5. His cheeks turn bright red during conversations with you.
No matter how hard guys might try to suppress their feelings, sometimes, their own bodies just betray their intentions. A rush of blood to the head is more than enough to let you know where his true intentions lie whenever he’s with you.
6. He ingrains everything that you tell him into his memory.
Usually, if a person isn’t interested in you, they wouldn’t really make an effort to remember anything that you say. However, if you find that he remembers very specific things that you bring up during your conversations, then that means he cares a whole lot more than you think.
7. He makes an effort to look good when he knows he’s going to see you.
It’s all about the aesthetics. He doesn’t want to look like a slob when he knows he is going to spend time with you. He’s going to make sure that he looks his best because he wants to look presentable when he’s together with you.
8. He tries his best to put a smile on your face.
He knows that at the end of the day, you’re going to be looking for someone you can be happy with. If he makes an effort to put a smile on your face, then he’s trying to make you believe that you can be happy with him.
9. He makes an effort for your friends to like him too.
He knows just how important the opinion of your friends are to you. That’s why it’s never going to escape his mind to make sure that your friends have a good impression of him. He wants them to know that he’s actually worthy of being with you.
By A for RelationshipRules