Start by finding out what his fetishes and kinks are.
You’ll be really glad to know that learning how to make a guy orgasmpowerfully is surprisingly simple. These 5 tips will help blow your man’s mind, the right way.
1. Remember that It’s OK to be nervous, but you do need to be passionate.
If you don’t have that much sexual experience, then you may be nervous or even feel awkward when you get sexual with your man. That is totally normal. You’re not different from anyone else.
But just because you are feeling nervous, it doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t be passionate. If you are excited about what you’re doing, then your man will be a very turned on, even if you are not very experienced and don’t know what to do.
So if you are having sex and not totally sure about what you should be doing, then just become more passionate. In this case, you’d start thrusting back onto your man, grabbing and holding him tighter, scratching his back and moaning louder than usual.
2. Use your hands and your mouth to make him come.
Your man’s penis is by far the most sensitive part of his body. So if you want to know how to give your guy a hot male orgasm, then you must pay attention to it.
One way to give it some attention is to gently hold it in your hands and stimulate it that way. Simply use the same grip as when you grab an umbrella, except you need to be a bit softer. Then start to move your hand up and down over it.
The top of it is where you’ll find the most nerve endings. In other words, it’s the part of his penis where he gets most pleasure from. So make sure to focus a good deal of attention on it.
One sex technique that most men love, more than just getting attention from your hands, is getting good oral sex. Giving your man a good blow job is a lot easier than many people would have you think. So when going down on him, try to focus most of your attention and effort on stimulating the top of his member with your lips, mouth, tongue to make him come hard.
3. Find out his fetishes.
When learning how to make a guy come, you’ll find that it’s far easier to make him ejaculate when you do things that really turn him on. But remember that every guy is different. Some get turned on by things like seeing you wearing revealing clothing, while others find things like watching porn to be a huge turn on for them.
If you really want to turn him on and make him come quickly, then you need to find out what his fetishes and kinks are. Once you know, start incorporating them into your sex life. You’ll quickly realize how helpful they are to giving your man stronger orgasms.
4. Start slow.
Start slow when getting sexual with your man. I’m referring to foreplay. When you can drag it out and slowly build up to getting sexual with your man, you are building a lot of anticipation.
This anticipation will get your man’s brain buzzing, wondering what you are planning for him. All this wondering, imagining and thinking is going to seriously turn your man on and make whatever you do to him that much more enjoyable.
5. Learn good sex techniques.
The best way to get him to orgasm is to know what you’re doing. Try new sex positions and really spice things up! He’ll thank you later while he’s having an explosive male orgasm.
By Sean Jameson orginal post on YourTango