1. She isn’t going to believe that the right guy is out there for her.
She has tried and failed at love so many times before that she’s going to have a hard time believing whether love is going to be out there for her at all. She doesn’t want to keep getting her hopes up with ever guy she meets; and she isn’t going to want to get her hopes up with you. You are really going to have to make her believe that you are worth taking a chance on.
2. She won’t really trust the idea of falling in love.
She has grown to become a skeptic in love. She has grown to become a woman who has been betrayed by the idea of love so many times in the past that she won’t necessarily know if love is actually something that still exists in this modern world.
3. Her friends are really going to make sure that you’re up for the task of being with her.
Her friends know what she’s been through. They know that she is deserving of so much more than what she has been getting. And so you can expect them to really grill you. They will want to make sure that you don’t hurt her the way that she has been hurt so many times before. They will try to safeguard her weak and fragile heart.
4. She isn’t going to be so willing to adjust her daily routine for your relationship right away.
She has grown accustomed to living her life a certain way. She is used to conducting herself in a certain manner. And so you can’t expect her to change everything up just because she happens to be dating you now. You’re going to have to give her time to adapt herself to who you are and what the relationship really needs her to be.
5. She is going to want to have a lot of fun in the bedroom.
She hasn’t really had any long intimate relationships with men before. But that doesn’t mean she doesn’t know what it means to have fun in the bedroom. She is looking forward to having a long-term partner with whom she can grow and learn from in a sexual capacity. She is going to want to do whatever she can to learn what you like and to please you.
6. She knows how to take care of herself.
She is a strong and independent woman who knows how to stand up on her own two feet. She has had to take care of herself for the longest time now; and so don’t be surprised if she isn’t going to be so receptive of your help or assistance right away. She is just so used to getting things done on her own.
7. She is going to consider her friends and family to be major parts of her life.
For the longest time, she has had to rely on only her family and friends for social interaction. She has had to rely on them for strong and intimate relationships and emotional connections. And just because you’re in her life now doesn’t mean that she’s automatically going to drop these people for you.
8. She isn’t going to be so affectionate right away.
She isn’t going to be so affectionate and loving towards you right away. She is going to hold herself back a little bit. She has made the mistake of being overly affectionate to guys early on even when they didn’t deserve it; and they all ended up breaking her heart and taking advantage of her.
9. She is going to enjoy doing couple things with you even though she might not act like it.
She secretly wants to enjoy doing all of the couple things that a lot of people in relationships do – because she has never really had the chance to authentically experience these things for herself. And so while she may not act like she’s excited, deep in her heart, it’s all she ever really wants.
10. She’s nervous to open herself up to you.
She doesn’t want you to see her weak side. She knows that she has to be strong. She doesn’t want to put herself in a position of weakness right away because she doesn’t want to give you power over her. She’s going to wait to see if you’re a guy who is actually worth being vulnerable to.
11. She can’t wait to fall in love with you.
But even after all of her apprehensions, the idea of falling in love is still something she desperately wants to believe in. I’s still something that she’s desperately trying to hold on to. And even though she’s been hurt so many times before, she wants love to come into her life. And she can’t wait for when it does.