You should never have to beg for anyone to love you. Understand that you are the owner of your own life and that you need to take a stand. While it’s okay to fight for love, as you should, it’s never okay to be at the mercy of another person for the sake of it. When you love someone, and you want to be loved in return, you are going to have to earn that love. You are going to have to learn what it takes to be vulnerable to another person, but you should never have to beg for love. That’s beneath you.
Love is difficult. It continues to elude many of us no matter how hard we try or how hard we work for it. We think that we finally have love within our grasp and we let it slip right through our fingers. There are very few things in this world that are more devastating than having our hearts broken. But we shouldn’t let heartbreak ever lead us into acts of desperation. We shouldn’t let our broken hearts get the best of us. We shouldn’t let disappointment rule our lives. Just because we’ve been hurt in the past and are desperate for love doesn’t mean that we have to beg for it. We have to be confident in the fact that love is eventually going to find us when it’s ready – when we’re ready.
When you love someone, you should let that person know about your intentions. You should be willing to let that that person know that your hand is ready for holding whenever they need it. You should tell that person that your shoulder is ready to be leaned on whenever they feel a little too tired or exhausted from the world. Let them know just how much they mean to you and how easy it is for you whenever you’re together. These are all very good ways for you to earn a person’s love without necessarily having to beg for it. Whatever you do, you can never allow yourself to beg for another person’s love.
You have to understand that you need to love and respect yourself first before anyone could learn to love you. It will be very difficult for you to find a person who is going to fall in love with you when they know that you don’t even love yourself. You have to own up to who you are and be proud of it. You should know that you are worthy of love, even if it doesn’t always come from the people you want it to come from. That’s just the way of life. You can never force people to fall in love with you, and that’s okay. That doesn’t mean you should succumb to begging for that love. That doesn’t mean that you have to turn yourself into another person’s slave just so you can win over that person’s affections. You are more than that and you have to start acting like it.
Never undermine your own dignity or your pride. While it’s okay to humble yourself, it’s still just as important to respect yourself. Know that your life has value and that anyone would be lucky to have you. Know that you have the ability to bring brightness into the life of the people around you. That’s why you should never feel like you have to force your way into someone’s heart. You should never feel like you have to beg for a person to love you – not especially when your love doesn’t need begging at all.
When you love a person, you should just love that person and hope for the best. Hope for that person to love you back. You can be sweet and affectionate. You can be kind and generous. You can be thoughtful and loving. But even if you are all of those things, sometimes, they are just never enough to make another person fall in love with you, and that’s okay. You should learn to be okay with that. You have to accept that there are some love stories in this world that aren’t just meant to happen – and maybe that’s because there are bigger and better stories in store for us in the future.
You are an amazing person. You are strong and you are brave. You are willing to let yourself fall for the sake of love, and that’s a good thing. But that doesn’t mean you have to lower your social status just to get someone to fall in love with you. That doesn’t mean that you have to live a lesser life than the one that you’re living just to win someone’s graces. If a love was truly meant to be, you wouldn’t have to beg for it at all. If a love was real, then you would know – and it will be the greatest thing you will ever experience.