Reunited and it feels so good?
When you break up is it forever done or is there always the possibility of you and your ex reuniting?
Breakups are sometimes beyond difficult. One minute you have an important someone in your life and the next you’re supposed to cut them out entirely and distance yourself from them as much as you can. And it’s always complicated.
If you’re legally tied to them there’s paperwork and legal fees; if you live with them, you need to divide up your stuff and one of you has to move out; and if you’re dating, you might never get to hang out with their friends and family again.
A breakup can feel as if a piece of yourself has broken off and been stomped into a million pieces.
There are some people that, no matter how hard we try, we can never get them completely out of our systems. We obsess over them, cyber stalk them and try to stay friends with them so that we can still have some connection to them.
When we’re not over someone it’s easy to want to get back together, to try again, and believe that we’ve learned from our mistakes. Sometimes the relationship is better than ever, and other times, the spark just isn’t there and is impossible to get back.
In theory, giving a relationship a second chance seems like a good idea. People change all the time as do our relationships, so who’s to say that the second go-around wouldn’t be much better than the first and that everything that was lacking or problematic will be miraculously solved?
Sometimes we have such a connection with someone that it almost doesn’t matter if you’re together or not; you’ll always be involved in their life one way or another. Are you able to forget the troubles your relationship had in the past and give it another try to get back together, or would it be a freezing day in hell before you’d ever go back to an ex?
Here’s whether or not you would get back together with an ex, based on your zodiac sign.
ARIES (March 21 – April 19)
The most likely way that you’d ever get back with an ex is if they’d already started seeing someone else and it was a challenge for you. If they’re moping around and obsessing about you, you couldn’t be less interested because where’s the challenge in that? You like the chase and if there’s isn’t any then it’s not so interesting for you. Now, you’re not above some ex sex, but that would just be for fun, not for anything long-term.
TAURUS (April 20 – May 20)
It probably took you a long time to get to the point where you were together with someone, so the breakup was bound to have been painful and surprising. You’re not going to want to experience that kind of pain anytime soon. Once trust is broken, it’s practically impossible for you to make the same mistake again.
GEMINI (May 21 – June 20)
You probably didn’t want to be in a committed relationship in the first place. They did you a favor by breaking up with you and now you have time to explore all the other options you felt you were missing out on when you were with them. You’ll want to stay friends and will keep them on your guest list, but most likely the romance part of your relationship is done.
CANCER (June 21 – July 22)
LEO (July 23 – August 22)
They’re going to have to really grovel for you to give them a second chance, especially if they broke up with you. Your pride isn’t going to let them into your fabulous world anytime soon. You hope they regret their bad behavior and see how empty their life is without you. You believe the best way to get over a past relationship is to find someone new and you have your pick of potential partners. You’ll make sure to post all the fun you’re having on social media so that your ex will suffer.
VIRGO (August 23 – September 22)
Maybe you might be willing to give your ex a second chance, but maybe not. What are the statistics? Have they gone through a major change or are all their personality flaws still intact? Do they think things will just go on as they did before? You’re already looking at your relationship as one of your failures and you’d rather not repeat the mistake of trusting them again. Your relationship is broken beyond repair and it would only lead to frustration to try to put it back together again.
LIBRA (September 23 – October 22)
You’re open to reuniting as long as it isn’t too stressful or complicated. However, if your ex treated you like crap, you’ll never forgive them and there’ll be no chance of getting back together. You like things to be peaceful but that doesn’t mean you can’t hold a grudge like a boss.
SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21)
If your ex cheated on you and/or lie,d there’s no possibility of reconciliation. But if they didn’t and you still had some great chemistry, then yes, you’d be up for getting back together. Besides, they already know what to expect and that’s worth a lot when someone is as intense and passionate as you are.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 21)
CAPRICORN (December 22 – January 19)
AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18)
PISCES (February 19 – March 20)