You Don’t Have To Rush Into Finding The One Who You’re Meant To Be With Forever

You have to wait or that person who you’re going to be crazy about; the person who is going to be just as crazy about you.

The ultimate goal in life and in love is to be happy. That’s why it’s absolutely important for you to only be with someone who makes you the happiest that you could ever be in life. You should only be with a person who actually makes you look forward to waking up each morning. You should only be with the person who makes you forget about all the troubles of the world. You don’t have to rush into finding this person.

This person is going to come eventually, and all of your patience will have been rewarded. You should only be with someone who actually inspires you to become the best possible version of yourself. You should only ever be with someone you can build a strong connection with; you should be able to envision a clear and wonderful future with this person. You should be excited at the fact that you’re going to be spending the rest of your days together.

So even though you have yet to meet this particular person in your life, there is absolutely no cause for worry. You shouldn’t have to rush at all. Remember that you are going to be spending forever with this person and if you want things to turn out right, forever is just going to have to wait a little longer. You don’t have to feel bad at the thought of having to tell people that you’re still single whenever they ask you. You don’t have to be sad whenever you have nothing to share to people whenever you are asked about your love life. You don’t have to feel so pressured if your friends are getting into relationships left and right while you aren’t. Don’t succumb to the kind of destructive thinking that will lead you into a relationship that’s really bad for you. You don’t want that kind of toxicity in your life. You would definitely be better off being patient as a single person.

You shouldn’t have to waste your time dating a person who doesn’t care about you the way that you should be cared for. You shouldn’t have to answer to a person who doesn’t really give a damn about you. You should only be with a person who wants everything to do with you; the person who would move mountains just to be with you; the one who would cross rivers just to wrap you in an embrace. You shouldn’t have to be with someone you don’t really feel that kind of magical romance with. Love is always meant to feel magical; and you don’t deserve any less than that.

You would be doing yourself a favor by just choosing to stay single than force yourself to date a person who is just infinitely bad for you. Being in a toxic relationship is so much worse than just being happy in your own solitude. You shouldn’t have to be in a relationship with someone who is constantly getting upset at you and belittling you for who you are. You shouldn’t have to be with a person who doesn’t think it’s important to meet your friends or parents. You shouldn’t have to be with someone who doesn’t want to take you out on dates.

You should really just choose to stay single until you actually meet that person who would make it a point to spend time with you as much as possible. Just wait for that one person who is going to make everything feel just right. This person is going to ignite a feeling of comfort and ease within you. This person is going to make you feel like everything is falling into place whether you like it or not. This person is going to add lots of color and vibrancy to your life. This person is going to be able to give you the kind of perspective that you desperately need to give you a new outlook on life – a fresher one.

You have to wait or that person who you’re going to be crazy about; the person who is going to be just as crazy about you. You have to be with someone with whom you can be completely silly. You have to wait for that person who makes you feel like you can be comfortable with being yourself. You just have to wait until you meet that person who actually makes you feel like you are in the relationship that you deserve to be in.

But remember, until you meet that person, it’s okay for you to stay single. It’s okay for you to not want any part of relationships that are less than what you deserve. It’s okay for you to be selfish. It’s okay for you to only want to take care of yourself.

By A for ReRules

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